28 Feb How to Cope with Your Teen’s Attention Deficit Disorder
teen’s attention deficit disorder? If so you’re not alone. Many parents are
faced with the challenges that come with taking care of their teen who has
attention deficit disorder. To help understand the impact attention deficit
disorder can have on a parent / teen relationship and how a parent can cope with
their teen’s attention deficit disorder, I have interviewed therapist Robert
Tell me a little bit about yourself.
“I was raised by a single mother and
had 12 brothers and sisters growing up in poverty on the west side of Chicago.
My father suffered from Alcoholism and died when I was thirteen years old. I had
emotional issues growing up but was able to get help from a counselor at
Northwestern University. I decided to change my career path and give up a career
in economics and go and serve our youth as a teacher and counselor. I hold
special teaching licenses as a behavior disorder learning disability and
mentally handicapped teacher as well as a supervisor.”
What type of impact can a teen’s attention deficit disorder have on a parent
/ teen relationship?
“A teen with attention deficit disorder usually
presents symptoms of hyperactivity, distractibility and impulsivity of varying
frequencies, intensity and duration. The range can be very great and can have a
huge strain on a relationship with significant others such as
What common mistakes do parents make when parenting their
attention deficit disorder teen?
“I think sometimes parents do not seek out
professional counseling for their teen that has attention deficit disorder.
Professional counseling can treat and help many of the symptoms that cause
emotional pain for these youngsters. This year the Federal Mental Health and
Substance Parity Act came into effect for all United States citizens. That means
that that teens suffering from this sometimes debilitating mental health issue
can be treated and paid for through insurance. Prior to this law going into
effect, there was typically a disparity in copays, deductibles and number of
visits for all mental health and substance abuse issues. If one had a kidney
problem one can expect treatment till one gets better. Well now the same can be
done for teen’s that have attention deficit disorder and other mental health
issues. So a parent shouldn’t wait but get the help their child needs.”
What can a parent do to cope with their teen’s attention deficit disorder?
“I think it is best for a parent to be supportive to a teen when they are
getting help with struggling from attention deficit disorder. By getting the
help their teen needs will help the parent to better cope with their teen’s
attention deficit disorder.”
“There are several different techniques that are utilized to get a teen to
improve their behavior. Often times, a therapist has to try several techniques
over a course of a few months. Sometimes, a teen may have to try one or more
therapists also. It is important for a teen to trust a therapist and that trust
takes time to build. Remember, this is likely the first time a teen has to work
with a therapist so it is important to support the therapeutic process, which
takes time. As the teen’s behavior changes the ability for the parent to cope
will also improve.”
“When things do become stressful it is also important for the parent to take
care of themselves by taking a break away from their teen. For example, getting
a massage, going out for a walk, meeting a friend for dinner or simply taking a
What type of professional help is available for a parent who wants to better
cope with their teen’s attention deficit disorder?
“I think both teen and
parent need support. So I would encourage any parent in need of help with their
teen to do a google search for a
mental health counselor in their area for assistance.”
Thank you Robert for doing the interview on how a parent can cope with their
teen’s attention deficit disorder. For more information on Robert Moylan or his
work check out his website on robertmoylan.com.